Will you think she's too "FAN" ?

paradox86 SG

She likes you, she confessed to you. You did not really return ur feelings to her cuz she just broke up with her bf not long ago. She told you she's gotten over it. You think this is way too fast? She's frank with you, telling you almost everything. Known each other thru work.

Now i start to think she's kind of "fan" aka noisy. Telling me who's with her.. wad shes doing.. etc.. do u tink it's way too much? I mean well u can tell me this.. but she go home with another guy (cuz stay near) oso tell me. Kind of like irritating to me. Any ways to tell her not to be too fan in a nice way? Surprised

Lord Kang SG

Now u find her irritating..Wait next time if u got together with her, u will be asking who she with, what she is doing, why u going home with another guy..

Wouldn't it be the same as what she is doing??

bratpig SG

why cant u all let your partner have some privacy? juz hate it when gals ask me all these qns...feel like slapping them

dibilo SG

imo, she is juz tryin to find smth to talk to u abt. she doesnt knows ur likes/ dislikes therefore bo bian tok abt herself lor. giv her a chance

elektra SG

sure do... slap lor.. am amused to see her being slapped... oops!

Lord Kang SG

I am just stating the possibility of people doing that ah..not that i encourage them to do so wat..

_Aaron_ SG

Its her way of 'staying in touch' with you, and perhaps you only show her attention when she talks to you.

Perhaps you could lead her to a topic in which the two of you shares an interest together, or do something else together, to show her the attention she needs.

Or of course, she could just like talking a lot.~

ubermagicseller SG

Fan her away then.

Danisdead101times SG

she is trying to catch your attention~ i think you will suffer even more if you starts a r/s with her~

SnowFlag SG

I think that is pretty normal de. u hv to learn to see things postively from a different view.

gentlerock SG

Consider yourself lucky, it could've been worse. I used to know this girl who called me 3 times a day (even when she was overseas) not to tell me what she was doing....but to find out what I was doing. She even made spared no effort in getting to know my mother (which she did successfully).

keuriseudo SG

Hey dude! You're lucky!

This is your chance. Not hers.

Now that she has confessed to you, time to turn on the spark even more! What do you do? Just RELAX. LEAN BACK. Try and tease her even more, and don't be afraid to offend her in cocky and funny ways. About you telling her that she's irritating, try not to sound nice but at the same time sound humorous.

One final note: NEVER take advantage of a girl's early confessions or signal to you that she's interested too soon, or you'll may kill your chances to be with her.

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Well, if you really DON'T want to be with her and want to reject her, try being a very nice friend instead and do nice things for her, just like any other guys who did the same thing while courting her. She'll definitely treat you as a good friend after some time.

OR

If you want to reject her instantly, try telling her straight in the face. I'm sure she'll appreciate it, rather than beating about the bush and procrastinating.

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All the best in your decisions!

yours faithfully,
S.H.I.N.

zrahf SG

its quite normal le…from e way shes doin things now…using every sec n chance to get ur attention le…if u had a slight interest towards her…gif u both a chance lo….keke…

Medicated Oil SG

If you like her, spend more time with her by listening to her nagging.

Then, you will get used to it for the rest of your life.

You have become her temp BF in the way.

If you dun like her, just find yourself a girl friend so that you dun have so much time to listen to her stories.

LilO gIrL SG

because she treats u like a bf liao.

u find it fan? but u like her? Rolling Eyes

technoboy SG

If you like her, I dont think would be fan

But if you dont, it is really fan.. Lol i had a almost same situation as you last time too

Yunhaier SG

What do you think?

A woman in relationship, behaving like one without physically having one; our psychological imprint merely repeats/continues the life of having relationship even if we are out of love. She is merely behaving the way she is to his previous boyfriend, out of unconscious habit.

In love?

Rebound?

Or in love with love? Idea

Cheers

edi_77777 SG

mayb ttz her way of showing concern or wot.... who noes.... u can always ask her simply y she wanna report to u when u nvr ask for it..... n wait she dun wanna tell u anything liao u will start to miss those moments when she tell u all the stuff.... we men r like tt.... got we find it 'fan''... when dun haf then we go 'fan'.... haha!! but ttz wot make us men special!!! wakakak!~~ Twisted Evil

No_Problemo SG

If you think she pester u too much like housefly, go get some mortein shut her up

Idea

mistyblue SG

if you think she is fan, then it is so
I see see, but than maybe I don't think it is fan, it is not fan to me
So it depends.